Comments for jon sattelberger http://jon.jpdatabase.net we design our own devices, this is mine. Thu, 28 Aug 2008 04:27:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.3 Comment on Human by Melissa http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2008/02/20/human/#comment-2304 Fri, 22 Feb 2008 22:59:35 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2008/02/20/human/#comment-2304 Situations like this are difficult. The mere fact that she's confused, though, must mean that there is a part of her that wants to be more than friends with you. It just sounds like she needs time. Perhaps there are things in her past that she still hasn't worked through yet. If I were you, I'd wait for her. She saw something in you and you obviously saw something in her. I wouldn't say this is over yet. Just try to stay positive and confident. We females like confident men. Situations like this are difficult. The mere fact that she’s confused, though, must mean that there is a part of her that wants to be more than friends with you. It just sounds like she needs time. Perhaps there are things in her past that she still hasn’t worked through yet. If I were you, I’d wait for her. She saw something in you and you obviously saw something in her. I wouldn’t say this is over yet.

Just try to stay positive and confident. We females like confident men.

]]> Comment on Eventful as it gets by Lufelia http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/14/eventful-as-it-gets/#comment-2133 Mon, 16 Jul 2007 23:57:42 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/14/eventful-as-it-gets/#comment-2133 Re: Melissa's bar comment: Don't knock it before you try it. If you come in thinking that you're not going to find anyone interesting, you won't (and you can apply this sort of thinking to anything else). It's good to keep an open mind about things because you could be missing out on the best opportunities. But hey, if it's not your thing, it's not your thing, and that's fine. Just don't write it off so quickly, eh? Re: Melissa’s bar comment:

Don’t knock it before you try it. If you come in thinking that you’re not going to find anyone interesting, you won’t (and you can apply this sort of thinking to anything else). It’s good to keep an open mind about things because you could be missing out on the best opportunities. But hey, if it’s not your thing, it’s not your thing, and that’s fine. Just don’t write it off so quickly, eh?

]]> Comment on Eventful as it gets by Ls3 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/14/eventful-as-it-gets/#comment-2111 Tue, 19 Jun 2007 18:40:31 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/14/eventful-as-it-gets/#comment-2111 The "friend" list on these social crapworking sites should be renamed to "acquaintance" list. The “friend” list on these social crapworking sites should be renamed to “acquaintance” list.

]]> Comment on Eventful as it gets by Melissa http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/14/eventful-as-it-gets/#comment-2110 Sat, 16 Jun 2007 15:27:16 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/14/eventful-as-it-gets/#comment-2110 You know, a lot of what people find unattractive in a guy is a lack of confidence and a negative attitude about people and themselves. How do you expect other people to like you if even you don't like yourself? You can't let other people get you down so much that you begin to believe what they are saying. I've gone through similar problems with people trying to tear me down all my life, but I really try not to let it bother me. People aren't worth it. Be yourself and be happy with who you are and some nice people deserving of your friendship WILL come along. Maybe not right away, as you're still going to be surrounded by the same assholes for the most part, but you will have your chance. And if your looks are what is keeping people from being friendly with you, these people aren't even worth your time. I don't know how many times I have to tell you, but you are not a bad looking guy. Plus, you're intelligent. There's no reason why a decent, normal person wouldn't want to talk to you. That just goes to show you that these people you currently associate with need to be forgotten. I've been told to go to bars and meet new people, too, but I really don't think that's the best suggestion for people like us. I'm not really into the bar scene simply because I don't like the type of people who hang out at bars. How am I supposed to strike up a conversation with someone at a bar? Start talking about airfoils or why Boeing makes better planes? I don't think so because people who enjoy that kind of thing don't sit around at bars on weekends unless it's the bar at the airport. I really wish you wouldn't worry so much about it. I know it's frustrating to not have "real" friends to confide in, but it isn't the end of the world. Do like I do and just feed your obsessions. Since I don't have tons of people to hang out with, I sure as hell have a lot of free time to study things I love. You know, a lot of what people find unattractive in a guy is a lack of confidence and a negative attitude about people and themselves. How do you expect other people to like you if even you don’t like yourself? You can’t let other people get you down so much that you begin to believe what they are saying. I’ve gone through similar problems with people trying to tear me down all my life, but I really try not to let it bother me. People aren’t worth it. Be yourself and be happy with who you are and some nice people deserving of your friendship WILL come along. Maybe not right away, as you’re still going to be surrounded by the same assholes for the most part, but you will have your chance.

And if your looks are what is keeping people from being friendly with you, these people aren’t even worth your time. I don’t know how many times I have to tell you, but you are not a bad looking guy. Plus, you’re intelligent. There’s no reason why a decent, normal person wouldn’t want to talk to you. That just goes to show you that these people you currently associate with need to be forgotten.

I’ve been told to go to bars and meet new people, too, but I really don’t think that’s the best suggestion for people like us. I’m not really into the bar scene simply because I don’t like the type of people who hang out at bars. How am I supposed to strike up a conversation with someone at a bar? Start talking about airfoils or why Boeing makes better planes? I don’t think so because people who enjoy that kind of thing don’t sit around at bars on weekends unless it’s the bar at the airport.

I really wish you wouldn’t worry so much about it. I know it’s frustrating to not have “real” friends to confide in, but it isn’t the end of the world. Do like I do and just feed your obsessions. Since I don’t have tons of people to hang out with, I sure as hell have a lot of free time to study things I love.

]]> Comment on Almost died yesterday by Ls3 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/05/almost-died-yesterday/#comment-2109 Mon, 11 Jun 2007 22:04:35 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/05/almost-died-yesterday/#comment-2109 Same as ever Same as ever

]]> Comment on Almost died yesterday by Jon http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/05/almost-died-yesterday/#comment-2108 Mon, 11 Jun 2007 21:10:52 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/05/almost-died-yesterday/#comment-2108 Yeah, I was figuring it might make it worse. I never liked the tires, but since they were new I'll use them till they rot. How are things? Yeah, I was figuring it might make it worse.

I never liked the tires, but since they were new I’ll use them till they rot.

How are things?

]]> Comment on Almost died yesterday by Ls3 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/05/almost-died-yesterday/#comment-2107 Mon, 11 Jun 2007 20:49:04 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/06/05/almost-died-yesterday/#comment-2107 A limited-slip diff. would not have helped--it probably would've made things worse. Invest in <b>good</b> tires and make sure that your suspension, brakes, alignment are in good shape. A limited-slip diff. would not have helped–it probably would’ve made things worse.

Invest in good tires and make sure that your suspension, brakes, alignment are in good shape.

]]> Comment on She tired me out by Jon http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/02/05/she-tired-me-out/#comment-2066 Tue, 06 Feb 2007 07:04:01 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/02/05/she-tired-me-out/#comment-2066 Am too. Am too.

]]> Comment on She tired me out by Melissa http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/02/05/she-tired-me-out/#comment-2065 Tue, 06 Feb 2007 05:04:11 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/02/05/she-tired-me-out/#comment-2065 Jon, you are not ugly! I am! And it's -4 Fahrenheit here right now, not counting wind chill :D Jon, you are not ugly! I am! And it’s -4 Fahrenheit here right now, not counting wind chill :D

]]> Comment on Welcome 2007. Farewell 2006. by Therese Hammond http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/01/03/welcome-2007-farewell-2006/#comment-2008 Sat, 13 Jan 2007 12:31:03 +0000 http://jon.jpdatabase.net/2007/01/03/welcome-2007-farewell-2006/#comment-2008 So you passed everything - congratulations. Have a good New Year. So you passed everything - congratulations. Have a good New Year.

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